"Adoption loss is the only trauma in the world where the victims are expected by the whole of society to be grateful." Keith C. Griffith, MBE

This site is for adopted people, parents, partners, friends and families impacted by adoption in Aotearoa New Zealand.

Our vision

Adoption NZ’s vision is:

  • to provide resources for people impacted by adoption

  • to educate and raise awareness of the practice, policy, challenges,

    triumphs and impacts of adoption

  • to take an open, honest look at current and historical adoption practices

  • to provide access to relevant research, articles, books and links on issues relating to New Zealand’s adoption legislation

Latest News and updates

Adoption Reform Champion Robert Ludbrook  | 27 December 1934-19 October 2024 

Aotearoa’s champion of adoption law reform, Robert Ludbrook died in Auckland on Saturday 19 October 2024. He was a staunch advocate for human rights throughout his life, including fighting over many decades for the reform of Aotearoa’s inhumane adoption laws. Among his many achievements was establishing Adoption Action Inc, and preparing and delivering Adoption Action’s successful submission to the Human Rights Tribunal, which identified numerous humans rights breaches in the Adoption Act 1955. 

Robert was a vital and productive member of Adoption Action and his legacy continues to inform our mahi.

Royal Commission into Abuse in Care final report RELEASED 24 July 2024 - more here. Formal Apology to be given on 12 November 2024

'I Carried This' is a documentary theatre illuminating the closed adoption experiences of New Zealand women in the 1950s-60s. I Carried This opens on 5 June 2024 in Wellington’s Hannah Playhouse. Find reviews and more here.

One News 13 May 2023: When Jenny Small was adopted by Pākeha parents in the 1960s, she was cut off from her whakapapa. Six decades later, journalists Mihingarangi Forbes and Annabelle Lee-Mather reunite Small with her whānau In this One News video the Minister of Justice told the reporters that ....a bill won't be introduced before the next election...And for Jenny? Where is her apology? And why did she have to get support from the media to find and reunite with her whānau? Justice delayed is justice denied.

February 2023 - Just released Ebook … A Question of Adoption: Closed Stranger Adoption in New Zealand 1944–1974 and Adoption, State Care, Donor Conception and Surrogacy 1975–2022 by Anne Else with Maria Haenga-Collins

Please note: AdoptionNZ.com is independent from any statutory adoption agency or adoption accredited body, and does not have a presence on Facebook, Instagram or X More about us here

Since the 1955 Adoption Act was passed there have been around 100,000 adoption orders made in Aotearoa New Zealand.

Each adopted person will have a mother and father, generally two adopting parents, eight grandparents, siblings and cousins, aunts and uncles, partners, children and grandchildren.

Most people in Aotearoa New Zealand are connected in some way to someone impacted by adoption.

Over the years, many of the thousands of people with diverse links to an adoption order have approached us with questions they seek answers to, for support to help them take the first or next step, and to learn more about adoption in our country.

Where we can, we aim to help you find what you need.

This is a place where you’ll find resources and information about adoption in Aotearoa New Zealand and overseas.

There have been, and continue to be, many articles, research, thesis, testimonials, books, videos, documentaries and movies produced relating to adoption.

We aim to provide a clearing house to help you find and navigate your way to finding what you’re looking for.

Since the Adoption Act 1955 was passed there are have been numerous changes to legislation relating to adoption in Aotearoa New Zealand, including the Adoption Information Act 1985, the Care of Children’s Act 2004, the Human Reproductive Technology Act 2004, and the Children’s Act 2014. Practices around adoption have also changed since the current Adoption Act 1955 was conceived.

There has also been many attempts by lobby groups, academics, MPs and others to change the 1955 Adoption Act. Most have aimed to ensure the any new law is consistent with Aotearoa New Zealand’s obligations under international child protection treaties, Te Tiriti o Waitangi and with other domestic legislation relating to children in our country.

We aim to cast a light on the journey to reform, to investigate the drivers and roadblocks along the way, and to support you, if you wish, to to become a driver for change.

Contact

Feel free to contact us with any questions or feedback.

Email adoption@xtra.co.nz

Please note: AdoptionNZ.com is independent from any statutory adoption agency or organisation